Tuesday, April 15, 2008

The most irritating and biggest liar i ve ever met.

Well the title sounded like a bad encouter with a bad Boyfriend, but at least if boyfriend is the case we can just easily break up..but no.. and..I dont know how to start. but i need let out my feelings somewhere. Blog i guess is the best place to set up my complaints which i cant keep any longer.
I ve been patience all this while. It has almost been a year, we accepted her to be our roomie with open arms.At first we had a plan of having the room for ourselves. But i m now hopelessly hating her now. I tried to forgive and forget and hope to doze off every night i m here in this room.
But things cant turn back as the way it was, i used to feel tht she is a nice friend, a helpful person. Now i only see her as an object of my irritations!She is always acting as innocent person, naive, goodie two shoes.But in fact she is actually the most ignorant ,rude, selfish person i ve ever met!!

First of all,* i m really hating myself for being angry with her* She lied when she said she has little stuff. Afterall, she moved in with more luggages than both of us, with more furniture than both of us. I even sacrificed and sold off my fridge,throw out my washing machine to fit in her stuff in. It seemed like she has doubles and triples of each things tht she owned!For example, stationaries but when she needs them, she ll ask for mine...the reason is simply because her stuff are so messed up she cant find them when she needs them or she borrowed them to someone..
Then, of course she is a person who likes to GIVE and help but it is really pissing people off when she gave away OUR STUFFS, or borrowed them to others without our knowledge and then forgets about it..It s not like i mind every little things..but it is a long term problem for example the most recent thing when i cant find my peeler, tupperware,nail clippers, and the list goes on...bla bla... she ll be the one to blame, it gets worse when she forgot about the item.As we can never get them back. She just simply answer I DONO!..how irresposible can that be!???
Once, twice, it s ok but this person is really good on stepping at the end of my nerves.She seems to be giving away and borrowing our stuff again and again!Especially in times of need, i cant find the items i owned and paid for!!!
REALLY ANGRY!!!!these are the mess she made while wenli was gone for the summer.It was the first sign...but i let it slip as i though when she have her own place things will be fine. but i was wrong...


During the summer holiday, she made Wenli's table like rubbish dump!Not only eating on her bed, she dropped some food and forgot about it soon after..It was such an eyesore to see how she manage her place even till today.. Her table was a constant eyesore even if her cousin cleaned it up for her before but it wasnt long untill it became the same old style of decor..sheeshhh..I told her many times, if she doesnt organize her place and things, she cant find them when she needs to use them, all the stuff will fall and make noises,it is also creating a hazardous situation and lastly, why wana make eyesore out of ur own room..**SHAKING HEAD*

I at first thought that she was nice, generous person but time had proven me wrong..She offered help to ppl outside the room and make our days miserable. She brought in printer not long ago but the funny thing is that there are times, when we werent sleeping or weekends or can just simply ask for consent. Its really funny somehow, whenever she wanted to print is when we were too tired and needed rest badly. Her timing is really MAN DAMN!!>>I WANT TO seriously scream!When ur eyes started to feel tired and u wanted to rest at night,Then she started la going in n out(the door itself is noisy imagine she goes in n out)..She stored stuffs from other ppl in our room, either doing a favor for someone, or forgot to return the stuff she borrowed as if the room is the store room. Then her alarms, it rang like so many times, but she just wont wake up. But both of us are already up and hating her so much for that. It s not like i never told her nicely , or help her to solve the problem, i even gave her an alarm clock but nothing has changed. It seemed like she can only wake up to my voice screaming.Her own hp alarms dont work for her PEKAK ears!
The other problem i have with this irritating person is that her habit of wasting stuff(I ve seen her throwing away food stuff either she kept them too long, forgot about them or simply cause she dont want them anymore...but never offered them to others better to rot n throw them away)Sometimes i ll ask her if she needs this or tht, but after a while i felt like silly coz why bother it s her food. SHe just took things for granted, be it food stuff, friends, any stuff! Spoiled by parents who gave her everything she wanted. Talks rudely to them, calling her mom stupid. bla bla..
This so called religious person does have Great God given talent. She is really good in irritating her roomies..
Not only she likes to do things whenever ppl wanted to sleep and make noises(i wonder how come other ex roomies doesnt wake me up from sleep before except for her)The answer is simple! She is selfish and ignorant! Her broken chair really making me angry , everytime i m sleeping, it ll make the loud Jolts,waking me up suddenly. If i can put socks at the each legs of my chair to reduce the noise, why cant she use her brain and think of something..fix it or throw it or DO SMTG!!why does she like to make ppl miserable??SHe helps others to do things but yet bother her roomies so much when she does them..NOISE and NOISE!!turns to hate hate hate.
Now i m only looking down upon her as a person who wanted popularity by taking all chores to do but then, so selfishly never thought about her roomies who also needed space and peace! It is too late to apologize now, the word sorry doesnt have an effect anymore, i ve been telling her way too many times, i m fed up.FED UP!!!!!!!!

I dislike her and her ways of living. Everyone has been telling me to be patient but seriously i feel like axing her head off everytime she does all the same irritating things again and again and again..It felt like she enjoyed them..She acted as if she doesnt know it even if we hated her for irritating us all the while she is in the room. Everytime i came home, i m hoping that she wont be in, so can enjoy the peace. everytime someone opens the main door with keys i m praying it wasnt her..Yeah it was THT BAD, alright..Of couse after a long and sickening day of traveling and lectures, u wanted to come home to a nice meal and bed. But even if u have those u cant rest as the other person is ignorant and selfish.
That s not the end..she lied to us..She thinks others dont know of her bad leg. So silly.She didnt tell the truth and detroy relationships among people.
Nowadays i put up a cloth to cover the space of my bed simply because i hated her presence and wanting to be alone in peace. I needed to fake my privacy and peace so much with her in the room.
So tell me, how can i not hate her..i really wanted to have peace and not hating anyone but i cant when she is constantly repeating the same thing i hate about her...Of course i m not perfect as well but to think of others and logic wasnt a hard chore to do especially when u are living with other people!

2 comments:

steph said...

don't judge a book by its cover :)

Wen-li said...

the thing is,Jo,we've been patient enough,given our impatient nature,one year is ady too much for us to bear with her attitude.well it's time for us to burst it all out.it doesnt do us any good by keeping all these shit to ourselves!

i used to put up some good words for her esp when my frens ask me how is my new roomie getting along with us even though i knw she does shit in the room.telling my frens tht she's been trying her best to reduce noises. but i was so wrong, she does the same thing again & again every nite every day.

the worst thing is, i did nothing but why did she wanna make untrue proclaims, blaming me for something which i din even do it at all!! LIAR!!!

is she insane or what?just can't think straight? such a good,kind girl in front of everyone but treating roomies like shit!!! if she wanna be a good samaritan, then be equal to everyone!! don't do good for the sake of gaining popularity!! DAMN DON'T BE A HYPOCRITE!!!